It happens that the couple break up, but after a while the girl begins to regret the break. Well, if the guy thinks so and does not mind getting back the relationship, but what if he already has another girlfriend, how in this case to return the former guy? Here are some tips.
How to return a guy, if he is with another?
Yes, we girls are illogical beings - first we'll leave the guy, and then we look for ways to return the former, we say "I love him, but he's with the other." The question is, why did it break the relationship if it's so good? Therefore, before you start re-conquering the former, think carefully about what motivates you: a sincere desire to be with him or a proprietary feeling - the guy should have longed to be sick, and then the week passed and he was on the other. If the owner speaks in you, then you should not think how to return the guy, neither to you, nor to the former, nor to the girl who he has, this will not add to the joy. Then, if you succeed, you are tired of throwing it. Work on the return of the former is necessary only if you have made a mistake and realized that this person you need. What you need to do to do this?
- Analyze because of what happened your gap, maybe you are to blame? Such a reason can be and if the initiator of the separation have you. If you did not get tired of the bitter radish of your boyfriend, he would hardly have agreed so quickly that you need to part.
- If the reason is in you, do everything to correct the existing shortcomings. Learn more about the new girl of your ex and try to become "above her on your head" in everything. The main thing, all the time, while you are thinking about what you need to do, do not get caught by the eyes of your ex, do not call him. Let him lose sight of you for at least a couple of weeks.
- After all the necessary corrections are made, you can safely walk to his favorite places. It is necessary to be there naturally at the parade. Try not to avoid your ex, when he is with another - the guy should be able to assess how much more interesting than his girlfriend. Do you plan to travel to nature with friends? Invite a couple to this event. And while you are in the same company, try to behave differently than usual, be for your former unpredictable, mystery, which will be interesting to solve.
- Many girls think that it is so insulting to write a new girl to a former guy, considering it to be her fault in all her troubles. Although this is certainly not the case, a new girl came to your ex-wife when you released him, so you should not blame her, but your short-sightedness. If you really write, then something compromising your former, so that the new passion herself threw it. Only in this case the letter should be anonymous, ostensibly from one of the former girls of her boyfriend. Write that he forced to have an abortion or quit as soon as he found out about pregnancy. This method is suitable, if your ex can boast a great experience of love relationships, so that your anonymity is not revealed. And most importantly, when communicating, try to be utterly polite and polite and with a former boyfriend, and with his new girlfriend, so that you can not be suspected of such machinations.
- If nothing happens and the guy does not hurry back, then leave him alone, walk away. No matter how hard you try, you can not return the ex-boyfriend if he has another girl whom he loved.
How to return the guy after the betrayal?
What a sin to conceal, not every one of us can be compared with an angel, we also change our men. Well, it happened with you, the guy found out and left. What to do, how to earn his forgiveness? First, realize that you are really to blame, and try to correct the situation. No meetings with other guys. But there is no need to arrange show scenes with sobbing. It's better to be sad, beautiful, sad and lonely visits to common favorite places in the city will be enough. You can write a short story in your e-journal, what memories came to you when you passed today, past the place where you first kissed it. But remember that some men categorically do not accept adultery, and if your such, then to return it you have no chance.